Saturday, January 12, 2008 // Saturday, January 12, 2008
it's really mean to say this to a girl. " Your so fat and if you compare urself to that pretty skinny girl, your far cry from her" this is wad a guy told to a ger. And they are only at the age of eleven. I really hate people critising other people. I mean look at yourself in the mirror. Who are you to say those nasty stuff to somebody? Are you more superior in any sense? You are not very good looking yourself. To this kind of people, the saying." what goes around comes around " suits them most. What you did to people will eventually come back to you. So before saying anything nasty about somebody, why don't you pause for a moment and think if you are in that position yourself, how will you feel if somebdy else did that to you? I thought you know i hate it and you wouldn't commit the same mistake. But ultimately you did. No one is better off to comment about others. And if you decide to give something else to someone, then don't keep worrying about whether the person will lose or damage the item. Worse till whether she deserves what you give her. Who are you to determine who deserve what? Think about it, if somebody tells you that you don't deserve this, will you really listen to that person or argue back saying that you do deserve that? You can say that right from the start you did not mention about wanting to give that item to that particular person. But do you know that i'm already make plans about giving to that particular person and i have already told you my plan? Do you like people ruining your plans, dashing your hopes? Yes the item is yours and you have the right to decide to give to that particular person or give to the other person. I won't blame you for giving to that other person bcuz she's close to you. It's the nasty remarks that you made. Don't you think that she don't deserve this and that? Why say those unnecessary stuffs? Doesn't the other person deserve that item too? Have you wonder how much the person wants the item that you have in hand? Her joy in getting that item may b ten or millions times than the other. anyway whether the person getting the item doen't matters anymore. He/she doesn't want people to say that she's greedy over that item and unreasonable.When people treat you nicely, did they question themselves whether you deserve this?The answer lies in your heart.
